Would you like to beat the heat to boost your sex life this summer? Extreme heat in the summer months can be a love repellent, especially when you’re feeling hot and fussy or when the kids are up for longer hours. This can create a challenge for you when making love with your partner. Does this sound familiar? If so, read on for some solutions….

It’s hot this year! Staying hydrated with clean water at all times is of the utmost importance for your health and sex life, no matter what activities you do. Here are five fun and affordable ideas to keep your love life hot while your body stays cool this summer:

Love tip 1: pool party for two

Cool off in the water, then heat things up! Float, relax and break the rafts and noodles; Whatever suits you! Put on soft and pleasant music while you immerse yourself. Swimming in your pool is a wonderful way to cool off and connect. Remember to flirt, hug and kiss by the pool to amp things up. If you have a private pool, skinny dipping can be very daring and exciting. Take your time, move slowly toward and away from others playfully. Making love in the water is a fun way to share your passion while staying cool, especially at night when the temperature drops a bit. If you have kids, send them to grandmas or your favorite babysitter for the night!

Love tip 2: Romantic picnic indoors:

Buy or prepare some fresh treats for the two of you: vegetable platter, cold salads, fruit, cheeses, or anything else cold and easy that you enjoy eating together. Make some cold drinks like spiked lemonade, mojitos, or margaritas. Remember that alcohol is dehydrating, so drink some extra water with your picnic dinner. Place your picnic blanket in the middle of the room. Light a few small jar candles around the room and set the mood. One or both can prepare the party.

Feed slowly between kisses and teasing. Have fun by candlelight. You can also enhance the mood with nature CDs such as the ocean, forest, lake, or whatever you find most romantic. Tonight, make love in a different room, like the living room on the picnic blanket. Focus on giving yourself oral pleasure tonight, so each of you gets a turn to lean back, relax, and keep cool as you enjoy the bliss of orgasm!

Love Tip 3: Romantic Movie Date:

This cool date can be at home or away. If you go to the movies, look for a very romantic movie in theaters. There is usually at least one every summer. Find a seat in the back of the theater. Hold hands! Steal you a kiss or two. Whisper something sweet to each other about what you will do to each other later. Share some popcorn and cold water while you enjoy the movie. Laugh, cry and then go home to make love.

Love Tip 4: Spicy Movie Date:

If you’re at home, rent or buy a racy movie. There is a company called Candida Royalle that offers some softer adult movies with cheesy romantic plotlines. One place where you can get them is Adam Eve. You can also find some more hardcore adult movies on that site depending on your taste. You can have fun with these movies, laugh, or recreate some of the scenes together. Try a few different sexual positions tonight, such as the woman on top with her back to the man. This allows for maximum air circulation and the freedom to move in a way that pleases you. Don’t forget to stretch out to stimulate her clit and send her to O-land! Remember to drink a lot of water and finish off with ice cream or some fruit salad.

Love Tip 5: Hot and Cold Shower Time:

Instead of taking a hot shower tonight, make the water warm or cooler. Bring some waterproof toys like rubbing my ducky or a waterproof vibrator. You can also use a moving shower head that has different speeds for soapy fun! Spend time soaping each other up. Take your time and use a pleasantly scented soap, such as mango, raspberry, or lemon.

By the way, vibrators can be for him and her! Massage each other’s back and front, focusing first away from the genitals and then on the genitals. To stimulate her, he uses circular motions with the vibrator around her labia and clitoris where most of the nerve endings are found. Then gently insert one or two fingers into her vaginal canal. She may be able to achieve one, two, three or more orgasms in a row in this way. To get it going, she stimulates her penis with one hand and using the vibrator under her testicles. Ask for feedback to see how she feels. Some people like vibrators and some don’t. Experiment with different speeds. When you’re done, rinse and dry each other and then sleep together. She turns on the ceiling fans for an extra breeze.

Hopefully these love tips will keep things cool and hot for you and your love this summer, help you improve your sex life and relationship.