Adrenaline Swinger

I know of a swinger who has been to numerous swinger parties and who has enjoyed almost every aspect of the swinger lifestyle for the better part of twenty years. Now in his early fifties, he says his enthusiasm for the swing is as strong as ever.

She tells me that the main attraction of swing for her is the adrenaline it gives her. She says it’s like you read about rock climbers and other adventure sports they experience. Whenever you go to a swingers party, you get a “high” just by looking around at all the potential new sexual partners that might be present. She emphasizes that this feeling occurs quite separately from her subsequent sexual arousal and is the most stimulating feeling of all.

A sense of acceptance and belonging

Another longtime member of the Aphrodite Club, described his feelings about the swinger lifestyle.

“For me, it’s about a deep sense of belonging and full, non-judgmental acceptance. This is the feeling you get when everyone is naked and sharing intimacy. No one is trying to hide anything and every person involved in sex agrees to all. as they are at the most fundamental level of human existence. I guess that is the way we used to feel before society dreamed of all the one-couple things and the false moral values ​​that people have to live by. in this days “.

Enjoying the best sex at home

A very common draw for couples can be how attending swingers affects them when they return home. Many swinger couples say that the most enjoyable thing they get from living a swinger lifestyle is the enhancement of their intimate sexual pleasure as a couple after they return home from a party. It doesn’t seem to matter whether or not they participate in any sex during the party. Just the adventure of going and soaking up the supercharged erotic atmosphere is enough for most couples to enjoy some of their the best ever sex once back in the privacy of your own bedroom.

Voyeurism

Another great excitement, common among swinger couples of all ages, is seeing their partner having sex with other people.

This is especially common among men, some of whom never participate in a partner exchange, but prefer to always just observe the procedures, usually from very close with caresses and persuasions involved. The degree of participation of the woman is sometimes limited by a prior agreement between the couple, so that complete intercourse does not occur. However, the opposite can also be applied, where some men enjoy seeing their partners being the center of attraction for unlimited group sex in groups consisting mainly of other men.

Women are generally less voyeuristic than men, so it is not surprising that finding women who are strongly motivated towards the swinger lifestyle by observing their male partner occurs less often than the other way around. Despite this fact, I have still met many couples where the female partner mentions that their greatest motivation for swinging is watching their man have sex with other women. In such cases, most of the time there is an element of bisexual participation for the woman and this could suggest that voyeurism itself is primarily a secondary factor. For many couples in which the woman is so motivated, threesomes with a bisexual single woman is a common practice. These can take place at swingers clubs and parties, but are often arranged through online adult dating to take place in private locations. Much less common is the so-called reverse gang bang but it is not entirely unheard of for a woman to organize this as the best sexual gift for her husband or boyfriend’s birthday etc.

Respecting what attracts other swingers.

The swinger lifestyle attracts for many more reasons than those mentioned here and it is essential to understand that we are all different and that what can be very pleasant for one person can be quite unpleasant for another.

My point of view has always been that anything that turns you on is fine as long as you don’t expect others to always feel the same way you do about everything.