Knowing how to attract girls naturally is something a lot of guys struggle with. If attracting girls doesn’t come naturally to you, it can be a problem that will haunt you for years because it’s hard to know where to go for good information on this topic.
If you want to learn to be a lawyer, you go to law school. If you want to learn to be a policeman, you go to the academy. But when you want to learn how to attract girls, there is no reputable school that you can go to learn.
There are many different people teaching attraction these days, from so-called PUAs or pickup artists to the most popular dating coaches. But who’s to say these guys really know what they’re talking about or if you should learn from them?
What I discovered about attracting girls is that it is very important to stick to the basics. This means doing things that one would assume are OBVIOUSLY attractive to a girl. For example, it’s a good idea to go to the gym regularly and stay in shape. When you have a six pack abs, trust me, girls notice!
It is also a good idea to build a good social circle and have some goals for your life. Any girl I can think of would rather be with a guy who has great friends and plans for the future than a guy who sits alone on her butt playing video games all day!
And then of course it’s also very important to learn how to stay calm around very attractive girls and relate to them properly, that’s HUGE. Girls can’t stand guys who act nervous and desperate!
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